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#10441 nudge

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Posted 25 July 2016 - 08:46 PM

Hehe, nice! Good luck with it  :happy:


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Posted 25 July 2016 - 09:23 PM

I'm always all cool and stuff when it comes to getting the number and starting the interaction but then I get nervous. I always sucked at the whole flirting thing, never knew when was the right moment to lean in to kiss a girl for the first time etc. Somehow I did the first kiss with my last girlfriend but I think I did that way too late, like I thought the moments were there earlier but I wasn't sure and didn't want to blow it. :biggrin:  And I think the moment just wasn't the same when I actually got around to doing it because it was like I had to do it at that point or this whole dating wouldn't make sense.  :biggrin:

But this time Im kind of more relaxed about it all. I feel like I've grown. If I feel the moments right I will just go for it. So yeah, a bit excited but also not trying too hard. Maybe we will hit it off, maybe not, we'll see. :)


Edited by Kloppische, 25 July 2016 - 09:25 PM.

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Posted 25 July 2016 - 09:31 PM

What's worked for me is I just ask the girl "hey, what do you think about me?" If she doesn't give the answer you like maybe say "do you think we can be more than just friends?" Do it early in your conversations, or it could be too late
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Posted 25 July 2016 - 09:42 PM

Or it might as well be too early and you scare her away haha. 


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#10445 Kloppische

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Posted 25 July 2016 - 09:55 PM

Exactly, I don't think it's that easy. :D You may have something special going on but you ruin it by pushing it. Words often just ruin things. I'm not a fan of relationship talks before the relationship has even begun. Girls are complicated unfortunately.


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Posted 25 July 2016 - 10:13 PM

Exactly, I don't think it's that easy. :D You may have something special going on but you ruin it by pushing it. Words often just ruin things. I'm not a fan of relationship talks before the relationship has even begun. Girls are complicated unfortunately.

 

Haha, trust me, some men are just as complicated. People are fucking complicated in general.


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#10447 Kloppische

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Posted 25 July 2016 - 10:51 PM

I'll take your word on that.  :biggrin:


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Posted 26 July 2016 - 12:02 AM

Perhaps, but the worst I've had is along the lines of "it's too early to tell, can we keep in touch for a little bit longer"
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Posted 26 July 2016 - 03:34 AM

I'll admit, I forgot about this place for a short while. The warning makes me want to come here less, so I've not been on as often. Glad to see it's still active, though.


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Posted 27 July 2016 - 02:24 PM

Has anyone ever had the problem with yuong people on the lines that boys fight and fall out - next morning to come in with arms on the shoulders and best mates, whilst girls fight, call names and scratch and fall out - and they are still in that situation - usually until Christmas  :biggrin:


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Posted 27 July 2016 - 09:06 PM

Some strange bond comes via respect in fighting with another male. Once boundaries are set, there's room left for friendship. It is a very strange male relationship dynamic indeed.
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Posted 27 July 2016 - 10:43 PM

I grew up from a background where it was custom to fight, and hash out differences later. There was never telling on the other person lol
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Posted 27 July 2016 - 11:01 PM

Some strange bond comes via respect in fighting with another male. 

 

 

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